It's pretty dumb actually! as young men you are obssesed with how you are perceived and it is seen as a nagative to be attracted to males. We are so scared of not being seen as masculine. Secondly, human sexuality is not completely black and white many things are quite ”normal” in western culture, this is a negative thing to talk about and it shouldn't be. This is the diifference between fantasy and reality, erotica and lifestyle.
I love giving pleasure to a woman, and being intimate. For example, on the surface, vaginas are kind of strange/unattractive and definately intimidating when you are inexperienced :), but I love them. I think men are the same way about women to a degree but don't really talk about it. But they are turned on by men, male sexuality, and they idea of sex and intimacy with a man. In fact, you'll find that in your encounters with women, that many females are not so wildly attracted to penises. We associate or own genitals with pleasure during masturbation, therefore we associate, male genitals with pleasure. Consequently, it makes perfect sense that watching male genitals would be arousing! it is basically hard wired for us. It is also natural for young boys/teens to experiment with their male friends. There are 2 main reasons for this being completely normal: first, all males masturbate themselves, and it is always our first sexual experience of pleasure (self discovery if you will). I too am not into watching men kiss, and definitely not anal, but do find it very erotic watching males masturbate, ha****b, etc. It's more primal and fantasy is involved. However porn and masturbation is very different from sex and intimacy. I have no attraction towards men in an ”intimate” way at all. I am HAPPILY married and would never be in a relationship with a man. I am a bit older and still prefer gay porn (goes in phases). I think there are a coupe of things missing in the comments I've read: first of all, this may not simply be a phase. Someone please help us as to why we feel this way. Although I am NOT homophobic and I am for gay marriage, its just not my thing. I don't want to be gay and would be humiliated if I was. So maybe I feel this way because the first sexual encounter I had was a male and I always go back to it? Not sure. I had a girl friend who I wanted badly but I never did anything sexual with a girl. At that point in time, I never had sexual relations with a girl. It turned into hand-jobs also (jerk circle styled). Around 7th and 8th grade I would always jack-off with a male friend. I have done my research into this and heres what I came up with. Also, while masturbating I think of guys mostly and feel gay but after I ejaculate, homosexuality disgusts me and I always think "why the hell am I thinking this way". I would never want to have sex with a man in the ass but blow-jobs and hand-jobs would be great. I would NEVER want to be in a relationship with another man though. I am mostly into watching hand-jobs and stuff, not gay anal. Women are just beautiful and so delicate.
I am in love with this girl and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Reading this made my jaw drop because you are exactly how I am. IO know i am striaght I want to have sex with my girlfriend but when i do i will always think to my self gay sex would be so much better. i kind of take it as an advantage to ther men who are straight and just liost their virginity and cum too early. look at striaght porn sometime i'm turned on my it but most times i am not. Another tthing is that if i see two dudes kiss i dont get hard ons or get turned on. But for guy it mainly just sexual thing that turm=n me on like gay sex, men jacking off, hard ons, boners, male horniness, male orgasm, just sexual gay thing like that turns me on, but if i think about being in a gay relationship it totoally disgustes me like literally i could gag, i dont have emotional like loveing or caring for men.just the sex. But I say I am straight because I like girl like when i talk to girls my hearts starts to beat fast, i look at them as they pass by (I cant help it), and I have had several girlfriends. i always had this fantsy of me having gay sex. its just something about the sex that turns me on. I think i like the gay porn because of the sex.